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'em, but not the index or pinkie
Or the ring or the thumb, it's the one you put up
When you don't give a
he means the middle finger. The middle finger is a hand gesture that means someone is being rude or disrespectful. It's usually used to show that someone is not happy or does not agree with something. Making the gesture involves holding up the middle finger while keeping the other fingers closed. It is considered a bad or inappropriate gesture in many cultures.