My mother died at 43 from breast cancer and I am 43 years old now and I too have been diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer and graves disease. I had just started school and wanted to get that degree finally now that my kids are grown and I lost my job. I was trying to get in the army at 40 when I found out that I had cancer and that dream of army was gone. Life stopped on a dime. It takes money to do anything but I would do all these things if I had the money to do it any of these things at all. I haven't done anything and all I want to do is to see the states just once to drive across the states and back. Everything is so much more beautiful if you lived like you were dying. Thank you, tim.